the 1st two weeks as a wife

8 a.m. 28mac2012

almost 2 weeks since ijab n qabul.. Alhamdulillah.. life as a wife has been great so far.. walopon byk bende dh tau b4 kawen, byk lg yg kene tau after kawen perihal naza.. pg2 nk mandi air panas.. b4 kua g kije nk minum
air panas dl.. bj seluar nk kene iron mlm.. al maklumlah pakai steam iron kalo gosok pg2 mmg basahlah time die nk pkai tukan.. hangin plak mamat tu nti..
b4 tido naza selalu pesan, kene blaja mtk izin suami sblm buat apape.. especially kalau nk klua umah.. even klua ngn mak sekalipon.. mkn pakai die kene jage.. kalau klua ngn kwn2 aib suami kene jage.. jalan tgklah bwh.. kalo npk lelaki hensem jgnlah nk bsrkan bijik mate plak.. tp kalo remy ishak ade exception x?hahaha.. mao kene ketuk ngn naza.. org serius die buat lawak.. huhuhu
honestly, sy try ikot ckp die.. ikot rentak die.. but what i can say, life sy xd ape yg berubah sgt.. i'm still living wif my parents,, kadang2 je blk umah in laws.. b4 kawen pon mmg dh train nk g mane2 bgtau.. cume after kawen, die more to mtk izin boleyh ke x, bkn stakat bgtau je.. ape yg die suke n xsuke pon mmg byk dh tau.. hari2 pon sy still whatsapp ngn woot wooters.. nothing changes.. i'm still me.. responsibility n priority je dh bertbh..
cume agak weird bile tido ade org kat sebelah.. selalu katil queen sy sorang tido.. nk telentang tebalik tonggang xd sape nk heran.. hahahah.. now selimut pon kene share.. bantal xlah share kot.. sbb tido atas lengan en. naza.. auwwww.. shuweett.. hahahaha..

till then
-sang isteri yg bgn pg :)

we're husband and wife!! syukur Alhamdulillah..

more updates and pictures coming up.. nk bg teaser dl :)

my last nite of being single ..

15th mac 2012, 3.25a.m

tomorrow, i'll be married to the man of my life, the man that i always dreamt of everynite, the man that always makes my heart melt..i'm excited yet i'm nervous..

semoge ALLAH permudahkan segale urusan kami esok.. semoga perkahwinan yg bakal didirikan dilimpahi barakah.. dan semoge keluarge yg bakal kami bina mendapat perlindungan dan rahmat dr ALLAH..

Amin..

a week before the big day

I'm back in Jb since last wednesday n i must say, it's the most hectic week in my whole life..

so many things to do before the wedding,, wif less time for sleep, mood kalah pms! siap bergado dgn supervisor nagoya!! hamek kau

••Almost a bridezilla••

I want this wedding to be beautiful.. not only to me.. But also to my dearest families and friends.. Tp bile prinsip hidup asek nk puaskan hati org je, nilah jdknye.. Nk ikot ckp org ni. Tp hati meronte2 nk ikot plan sndiri. Bile dh decde nk stay dgn plan sndiri, hati jadik serbe salah sbb xdpt fulfillkan kehendak org len. So macamane? Cikya kate mungkin sy je yg jahat suke pk bukan2. Ntah2 org tu xd hal pon..Tp tu mmg perangai sy. Xsuke bertnye tp suke assume. Assume mcm2 smp at last diri sndiri yg down. Smp nk pk positive pon dh xmampu.. Smp xleh tido mlm sbb bnde tu keep playing in mind. Tau x perasaan yg nk tido sbb nk lupekan semuenye. Tp xle tido sbb asek terpk. Penat tau prasaan cmni.. Letih sgt. Now i know knape org tue2 kate pengantin kene jage diri baek2. Sbb Darah manis.. Sbenarnye Sbb bile majlis dh nk dekat, otak nk fikir mcm2 bende. Smp tgh drive pon bole terberangan. Tu yg jdk bahaye.. Skarang faham? :)

Haih.. Xpelah. Cikya kate kalau buat majlis mmg mcm tu. Ade je org nk mengate. Ade je org nk compare itu ini. Kalo nk dgr ckp org mmg xhiduplah. Yg penting ikhlas.. Yup. Ikhlas! Apape buat pon, mesti ikhlas. InsyaAllah semuenye dipermudahkan.. Sematkan dlm hati.. Yang penting Akad.. Dulukan yg wajib.. Yg len tu bisa diurus kemudian hari.

P/s: tetibe rase tak sabar nk blk UTP.. nk clearkan otak,nk lapangkan hati,n nk kumpul semangat supaye kembali excited dgn preparation wedding..

My darling Tronoh! please be nice ,,

Bridal shower

One word to describe the party

SUPERFUN!

Yes.. It was superb, fun and enjoyable.. When all ur best girls was around u, what more could u ask..


A bunch of thank you to those who made the party a success..

Sheeda and nadia.. Thank u for organising the awesome party.. Tq for our trip to BP.. and tq for being great all this while!!
lisya.. Thank u for the 'entertainment' and the games.. Kau mmg crazy!!;)
nat.. U will always be my sweetheart! Everyday aku tido dgn bantal love kau :)
zati n ez.. Even lbt, but u both still made it on tyme! Hahaha.. Tq for willing to spend the evening with us.. Oh and zati.. Tq for the lunch treat!;)
A'a and eni.. Thank you for coming and tq for being a great sport!

I feel blessed to have such a wonderful friends ! Hoping the friendship to last forever.. Till death do us apart!

Love,
Mal


P/s: it's a pajama party theme.. Less photos to be published >_<

2 months checklist

> bridal- done
- baju bertandang: pending
- baju malam berinai: pending
> OP- done
> OV- done
> dewan- done
> catering- done
> PA system and mc- done
> wedding card- done
> bedroom set- done
> bridesmaid attire- done
> wedding ring yana- done
> wedding ring naza- pending
> brg hantaran- pending
> doorgift-
- paperbag: done
- riben: pending
- tag: pending
> HIV test- pending
> DIY Project- pending
> naza's shoes- pending
> performance- pending
> kursus kawen- done

Byk yg pending n byk lg yg xmsk dlm checklist... Haiihh

My guardian angel

Wedding is really not a guy's thing.. Believe me.. They love to get married.. But they just hate the preparation of it.. They hate to decide which one is the best.. Which one meets the theme.. n which one is within budget..

But the good thing out of it is that we, the girls a.k.a the brides gets to choose the best for their wedding.. From the small things like the colour of the tq tag to the big dcision like which bridal we'll go and what theme the wedding will be.. Nice ha!!! But guess what,, it's not as simple as saying "i want that colour for my dias","i want my wedding dress to be like mermaid","i want this catering" n what notss..

Being the only child in the family, the wedding thingy honestly made me headache.. Everything has to be done by urself.. When i say ething, it really means EVERYTHIng! Pheww.. Letih smp rase Cptlah kawen! Xsaba rasenye.. Selagi x smp hari mjlis, selagi tu hati x tenteram..

But i'am blessed to have such a nice gfs.. Especially my 2 angels, sheeda n nadia.. When i was kinda blur what to do n who to choose, they're here to Share their opinion.. when things got upside down,, they're here and willingly lend their ears.. When i get too excited with the wedding that it when over my budget, they're here to remind me.. It's a lot if i want to list it here.. But they do contribute a lot in my wedding preparation,,

So, to my two wonderful and beautiful dayangs, sheeda n nadia, i know u two will read this.. I just wanna say a million THANK YOU to both of you.. I really appreciate everysingle thing that u've done.. n i hope both of u will still be there to support me even when i turn into bridezilla!! I don't have siblings, but i know i have my two sisters!! Love you babes!!

xtau nk letak tajuk ape.. wedding card kot..

last tyme mase ade pameran panten kat angsana, sy dh booked siap2 wedding card.. siap byr dh sume..tgl bape rat je lg kitorng biakan..nti time nk siap dh br nk p bayar sume.. kalo xsilap mase tu br bln 6 ke 7 tah.. last mths, kitrng ade g kedai die blk, finalised card mane yg kitrng nk.. mmg simple lah..typical wedding card lah kan..xdelah nk letak gamba panten bagai kat situ ke ape kan.. n murah jek yg kitorng pilih.. sbb rasenye kalo nk save bajet,, leylah cut cost kat wedding card.. lepas org bace mestilah di buang kan..tp kad kahwen kwn2 saye, sume sy simpan.saje nk buat kenangan..heehuuu

then, last week org kedai tu email..tnye bile derang leyh print.. sbb design sume dh pilih katenye..so kalo nk print skarang dh bole dh..

hamboi kaw.. dec pon belom msk lg,, xkan nk print wedding card dh? ade 3mths 3 weeks n 3 days lg tau (tickers bgtau ;P).. beriye sungguh kalo nk print dh.. print bukan lame sgt pon. xsmp sebulan rasenye dh boleyh siap..so mknenye kalo saye suh die print skang, before 2012 kad dh siap dh... mcm cepat sgt lah pulak.. ke x??tp rimas tau org kedai dok sebok email2.. xckop email die text lg..sbb xde respond dr panten.. mungkin die pk, bdk ni nk kawen ke xnk kan.. booked beriye pastu senyap jekan..

err, camnae eyh? nk suh die print skng ke? tp lame lg.. mak kate nk print boleyh jek.. date sume dh final kan..dewan pon ok dh kan.. ko tunggu ape lg.. hamboi makkk..mcm xsabar sgt jek nk dpt menantu.. hahaha

tgklah camne ..mungkin end dec sy suh lah die print..so by january dpt dh.. boleyh di layangkan kepade saudare mare dan sahabat handai serte sahabat tak handai juge..

haihh..sekian.. hupdate wedding

till then

Official Videographer

I didn't planned to have an OV for my nikah nor reception. But then, wedding is not only for u..mak insists me to have videographer on my wedding day. best katenye kalo ade videographer. bole tgk live.kalo gamba je kan boring.. kalo video bergerak..Oklah mak.whatever u said.

So i started to usha videographer in JB and kl including the one that is recommended by someone. Tgk2 video derang.. ask quotation on any packages that they have. n just get to know them. tgk derang ni ok ke x. i mean mesre alam ke x. yelah..kalo OV sombong a.k.a. berat mulut cane nk cooperate mase wedding ntikan.

S0 3 have been shortlisted. Nk pilih ni yg susah. sbb sume suke n sume ok jek. I xnaklah beriye amek OV mahal2. i just nk mak happy je n plus i just want OV yg modern2 sikit. xnak lah highlight video pakai lagu Hail Amir n Uji rashidkan. Since semue pon ok, we get back to the price. They gv me the standard price except for this one.. harge gile babs u olss.. std2 cst agaknye.. terkejut i tgk hrge mcm tu.. so one dh cancel. left me with only two videographer.one is from kluang n one is from kl. Both is good n harge pon same jek.. except that bile tnye2,, since nikah n reception ade gap one day, yg kl tu mtk accomodation. haruslah accomodation for two days kan..so I hve to gv them extra at least rm300.haihhh.. rm300 bole beli mcm2 ye..

jadi saye cancel yg kl tu.. left me with only one option. which is a guy with a name....

KASHAFUL ASRAR (ni fullname die ye..sedap sungguh name itu)

lepas dh deal2 bagai, n tgk die ok jek,, teros i booked date since he said there's this one girl from Jb asking for the same date. Bayar deposit siap2 n teros dpt receipt. simple n easy.. settle sudah satu masalh dlm otak. Alhamdulillah

Cume satu je yg runsing. video kat Msia ni semuanye hanye include video highlight with a song duration plus 1 HOUR full edited video only. So mesti mak akan tnye kenape 1jam je sbb video wedding kazen2 saye kat spore sume berjam2..oh itu spore ye mak..sini msia..so ikotlah ape yg msia ade..plus kalo berjam2 tgk muke sndiri adelah membosankan sbenarnye ye.. jadi kene bersedie dgn jawpan kpd bakal soalan dr mak tu..


sekian,. till we meet again

Fun!

Tq sygku sbb temankan sye hunting for the dayang's attire..
Bukti kegembiraan walopon berdue..

Baju dayangs..

Mission completed... Yippie yeaayyyy

Baju utk dayang2ku

Byk ke dayang sy ade? Oh byk sbenarnye.. Sbb dgn banggenye sy ade ramai bffs.. Mase tunang haritu dlm hati mmg ade niat nk bg my bffs kain utk buat bj for my reception.. Tp sukati deranglah kan nk buat pattern ape.. Dress ke kurung moden ke..its up to them.. So since tickers menunjukkan ade lg 4 mths b4 ijab n kabul, rasenye now dh bley crk bj utk derang kot..

So last week membeli belah brg dapo dgn didi, npk nagoya tgh sale.. Lace yg cantek2 siap lining ade yg xsmp 100 pon.. Bile ade yg bekenan xckop plak utk 7psg.. Haduyaiinyeee.. So today im going to kl.. Ade mission mncrk kain utk dayangs.. Hraplah ade yg bkenan n ckoplah ye utk 7 psg.. mak penat tau nk round2 lg :) .. Raye haji ni jpe mereke bolehlah bg skalikan..

So here's some pics of kain yg bekenan tp xckop psg.. Maaflah ye.. Camera i je phone.. Hukhukhuk

fening pilih OP smp suruh kawan2 vote..

two vote for R.. none for A

kite tnggu vote org laen lg ye

;)

teal + peach for malay wedding.. ok ke?

cantek x theme kaler cmni ??
this is what i dream for my wedding reception..
teal + peach

p/s: is the theme too english for a malay wedding?hurmmmm

I want that particular hall only!

Dewan ape yg aku demand sgt ni..
Hebat ke dewan tu smp ko nk demand lelebey ni kan..

Hoho..ade sbb knape sye nk dewan itu saje.. semue org tau saye anak jati johor bahru.. I was born, raised, getting my early education as well as getting my degree kat johor bahru.. cume matrix jek kat melake..tu pon curik2 blk Jb every week..smp pnjm kad balik roomate..tipu2 sakit..n mcm2 lagilah..just bcos nk blk JB.. both mak n abah saye pon anak jati johor.. encik pentunang pon anak jati johor bahru jugak.. so bile ade yg membuat percubaan mengutuk mengeji serte mengherdik JB, I'll be the 1st yg akan mengamuk.. over pulak ye.. ok but tat's not the point

sebagai anak jati JB,,ade a few things dlm wishlist sye yg kire kalo achieve sumenye mmg org kate anak jati johorlah kau ni..xkirelah since kanak2 smplah skang ni dh xbrape nk kanak2 sgt dh..angan2 tu still ade..hehehh...merepekkan..so antare wish yg penting is..

saye nk sekolah kat SIGS.. since SIGS konon mase zaman mak saye lagi sekolah ni dh glamour dh..n mak saye kate dl mase time die, die xpat msk sekolah tu..so skang ni saye ala2 merealisasikan impian mak saye jugaklah ni..hehehe.. so one wish achieved! yeayy

next saye nk nikah kat Masjid Abu Bakar.. but sadly.. ade org kate JAIJ dh xbg permission dh tok sape2 nikah kat situ..katenye menghalang para jemaah nk solat..n ade a few lagi masjid yg dh xboleyh dh.. ok fine.. so this one mission xberjaye.. tp doa2 jugak kalo JAIJ tukar fikiran ;)


and the last one is .. saye nk wedding reception saye buat kat DEwan Jubli Intan..since xley dh nk nikah kat Masjid Abu Bakar, saye dgn bersungguh2nye nk dptkan jugaklah dewan jubli tu..at least out 0f 3 wishes, dpt 2 jdklah kan.. lagipon sume tpt yg saye highlight ni rasenye mmg ade history die sendiri..history of more than 60 yrs..history which i assume sgt valuable utk kite2 warge mude JB ni kan.. cheewahhh.. kalo nk bace history dewan ni, here's the link


so, itulah crite pe'dewan'an tok wedding reception saye.. memandangkan encik pentunangnye side just seminggu after..kitorng pilih dewan lain pulak..dewan yg synonym dgn kami berdue.. jeng jeng jeng..hahhaha.. Dewan Majidee jek.. ;) ..kang kalo amek dewan jubli jugak ade yg pelamin xtkr design pulakkan...

harap ade yg xmuntah dgn post ala2 kenegerian ni ye.. sekian

perihal nk kawen

kawen? haduyaiinyeee,,
bunyi mmg best..ala2 yeay yeay nk kawen..
but then kemalasan nk buat preparation sgtlah menghantui hidup.
boley gitu..org len sebok g blogwalking sne sini nk crk idea for wedding dream..
aku ley ternganga jek..xtau nk stat dr mane..haduyainyeee

so, bak kate diri sendiri n encik pentunang,, mungkin bile dh ade date, mungkin kite jdk lebey rajin??mungkin lah kan..

So, while hibernating at home hari tu,, n when crutches bukan lg peneman setie,, we went to MBJB office.. usha2 dewan..

belom2 lagi dh down..kitorng plan nk amek date anniversary n date engange haritu so tat senang lah nk celebrate nti..xyahlah nk bg hadiah byk2kan n nk buat suprise anniversary byk kali kan.. (confirm jek kau ni nk dpt hadiahkan).. but then,, that date has been picked..available date for tat particular dewan is on MAC jek

So, bincang2 punye bincang depan kakak kaunter tu,, we decide to take that date..sbb nk sgtkan buat kat dewan tu..so any date available sauk jelah yer.. (post regarding dewan, nti buat laen eyh)

There you go.. Officially announce.. wedding reception belah pihak pantin pompuan will be on

18thMAC2012

while wedding reception belah pantin laki will be on

25thMAC2012

khatam Quran, solemnization n mlm berinai will be on

16thMAC2012

kenape font date colourful sgt ni? owhh..sbb it's according to the wedding color theme..teal for side pantin pompuan, orange for side pantin laki n grey+pink for nikah..mlm berinai xpk lagi nk color ape..

actually, kitorng nk combine je both side jdk 1 reception,,but then again,,family both sides xsetuju..katenye nti susah nk divide2..divide apetah..sungguh xphm..tp xpelah..ikot ckp family..berkat katenye..

so friends out there,,saye dh booking awak 6mths earlier..dtg jgn xdtg ye ;)